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Tied and taken by the wonderful Honey The best thing about starting to explore non-monogamy for the first time is that everything is new and delicious and exciting.


A couple of weeks ago, I passed my first twitter anniversary as mywildlens. It has been a wonderful, life-changing experience, and despite my continued disability I feel like a completely different person now to the one I was last year, without colour or life. In part, I wanted to reconnect with my body, to learn... Continue Reading →


So if you’ve been the recipient of my longing lately then I’m sorry ... it's just the build up of repressed desire seeping out of my cracks like air from a balloon on the cusp of bursting.

The Sex Diaries (8th March)

I send my partner a quick text to let him know that I’ll be done in ten minutes or so. We usually have lunch together around this time, and I’m just finishing up listening through the audio I was recording for GOTN’s audio porn project. He sends back a quick ‘K’, and I tell him... Continue Reading →


I was seventeen when I had my first relationship. He was sweet, kind and exceptionally creative as well as utterly respectful of all my boundaries. His creativity was fantastic, and he introduced me to my body in a wonderfully playful and exciting way. I remember sitting at the family computer; a big grey box set... Continue Reading →

Hot Tub Thoughts

I have always had a very vivid imagination. As a child that needed to frequently escape my surroundings I learned to live in my head, developing a rich fantasy life that became very adult the moment I read my first sex scene in a novel. Since then, my imagination has always played a huge part... Continue Reading →


I have an upstairs bay window, which I love, for many reasons. I get lots of sunshine, which is wonderful for photography, and for my mood, especially when I am in a lot of pain and stuck here for longer than I would like. I also love it because I can lie on my bed,... Continue Reading →


I've been really struggling with my voice lately. I feel like there is so much to say, and nothing I can say at the same time. Having a voice is important to me, but so often I prefer to stay on the sidelines, watching and listening and having all the conversations in my own head... Continue Reading →

Water Baby

When Honey wrote on my belly that I was a water baby, she was absolutely right. I've loved water all my life. I grew up by the sea, so learning to swim was a must, and we swam every week in the pool and during the summer we sailed every week too. I even joined... Continue Reading →

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